The old saying about kids not coming with a training manual is true. And the problem of “What do I do with this kid?” is intensified for parents in our contemporary rush-rush, worry-worry world. The problem is that when parents don’t quite know what they’re doing and they’re too busy to find out, they tend to shoot from the hip. Shooting from the hip can lead to two opposite, out-of-control parenting styles, neither of which is good for children. Let’s call these two styles “Underdog” parenting and “Big Dog” parenting.
Underdog parents’ behavior with their children is motivated primarily by anxiety and guilt. “Don’t want to do anything to offend the children” and “If the kids are mad at me I must have done something wrong” are the overriding thoughts. Big Dog parents’ behavior with their children, on the other hand, is dominated primarily by irritation and anger. “Because I said so!” and “Do what I tell you or else!” are the predominant themes. Read more
Yoga been used for centuries to help many kids who have a disability, disorder, disease or a specific special need. Here are some conditions that yoga can help cure for children with special needs.
Growing up with special needs can be frustrating and very stressful. Having a special need can affect your child’s physical well-being, their emotions and self-esteem, however the good news is that yoga can teach your child to cope with their condition improving their strength and health. Instantaneously you will begin to notice a positive change in your child. Read more
In all my years of teaching, the subject that has seemed to cause the most anxiety amongst parents is math. Hands down, I’ve received most of my panicked phone calls and frustrated emails because a parent felt ill equipped to assist with homework or could not explain math the way the teacher did earlier that day. My philosophy has always been to help families keep things simple. Life is complicated enough with school, activities, family time, and trying to stay sane in the midst of it all. Read more
Summer is the time when you’re eager to introduce your kids to new activities through camps and programs offered at local parks, colleges, schools, and community centers. You always see tennis as an option–you know it offers great exercise, but you don’t know if you have the right equipment for your child to play, and you’re worried that it might be expensive or difficult to find the right program. Well, you’ll be happy to know that tennis is actually one of the most accessible sports out there–there’s a good chance that the shoes your child wears for school will be great for the court (if they have black bottoms, just make sure they are non-marking soles) and the only other piece of equipment you’ll need is a youth tennis racquet which can be found at your local sporting good store or on-line for typically under $25. Manufacturers have made it easy to find the right racquet as they are usually labeled by age, and many tennis camps and clinics (group lessons that don’t break the bank) now offer the “quick start” approach which uses balls and nets that are more suitable to smaller children. (That said, if there isn’t a quick start program near you, fear not. It’s a new system that is simply a nice bonus, but it’s by no means necessary). Youth racquets come in fun colors and they are always pre-strung, so as soon as it’s in hand, your child is ready to go! Read more
When it comes to getting bitten by potential disease-carrying mosquitoes, there is truth in the old adage “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Be sure to educate your family about the potential harm of mosquito bites and empower them to protect themselves against these bothersome, biting buggers. There are many new options on the market today ranging from zappers and candles to sprays and the newest addition, area repellents such as ThermaCELL repellents. Read more